An essential stage of healing is identification – of forming a new sense of self and how that is integrated in your life. How do I survive if I become a stronger healthier and happier person?’ This is a challenge of survival for this new sense of self. If I own this, if I go so far as to heal this, if I actually transform myself into a healthy person, if I go the next couple of stages of … Read more about The Challenging Questions to Ask Yourself when Coming Out of Transformation?
Questions
Tribal Questions
Not only do you have a personal sense of identity that your personal consciousness recruited, but you are part of the subconscious of your tribe, that also forms and shapes identity. Think about all the tribes you belong to. What groups and causes do you belong to? What Tribal Archetype is there for you and where is your identity in that tribal structure? What in your childhood tribally formed … Read more about Tribal Questions
Questions to Ask When Things Get Difficult
You can ask yourself simple questions such as: Do they keep their word to themselves? Do they keep their word to other people? If they don’t keep their word to themselves, what makes you think they will keep it with you? Someone can only give you the intimacy that they have with themselves. It’s a simple truth. If you don’t have compassion for yourself, I cannot expect you to have it … Read more about Questions to Ask When Things Get Difficult
Boundary Reflection Questions
Who taught you that you can have boundaries? What kind of boundaries did you learn? Did anyone ever come to you and said ‘what awesome healthy boundaries you have – good on you!’ It is hard to find that message in our culture right now. Training is available here. … Read more about Boundary Reflection Questions